laytim.co.il – the new site for datlashim and datiim lite
Trying to pronounce that? It is from the English word lite, pronounced in Hebrew – לייט – and then rewritten in English with the Israeli accent and in plural… in Hebrew. Got it?
Whatever. Point is, it is the new dating site for Israelis who are datlash (dati leshe’avar – formerly religious) and dati lite (lightly religious).
Well, I’m very excited about it. I find I am constantly struggling with the fact that my religiosity is neither here nor there. I go out with secular people and I feel like I frummy and I go out with religious people and I feel like an apikores.
Now, people like me, have one place where we can meet each other.
Also, in the short amount of time I’ve been using the site (it hasn’t been around for longer than a couple of months), I must say I am enjoying the simplicity of it. I guess at some point this could be annoying, but right now I love that there are no bells and whistles. You go, you look at profiles if you want, you write people, they write you… The questionnaire you answer when filling out your profile is simple and there is one space where you can write a bit about yourself.
And that’s it.
And it’s free.
Are you going to try it?
P.S. Here are videos they made. They went to Bar Ilan and Tel Aviv University and asked people about who they’re willing to date, religiously. Just so you know, one of the guys interviewed in Tel Aviv was very upset at how they did the editing. He told me he said he’d be happy to date a religious girl and they cut that out of the video.


Deena, b’hatzlaha!!! :)
Anyway, to answer your question … no, I will not use the site, for I am a frummy, LOL. Actually, right now, I am talking to a woman who davens thrice daily with a minyan and wants to wear tzitzit and tefillin and study Gemara but who nevertheless calls herself yeshivish. :D Frum but idiosyncratic, just the way I like them. :D
Michael, she sounds simply dreamy.
I’m not sure if you’re serious or sarcastic, but I don’t care, because…. :P
(Did I mention I have a strange fetish for Swedish pop music?)
I’m mainly joking but not totally.
Hmmm, I wonder if the next sitcom will be called “laytim” instead of “srugim”?
Here’s a scene I would propose for the new show -
[guy and girl going out]
[having a bite to eat], [camera briefly focuses on the teudat kashrut posted at the place]
[guy and girl walking holding hands]
[back at girls apartment]
[brief kiss goodnight]
…
[4'th date]
[obviously things have been going very well]
[passionate kiss goodnight]
…
[guy spends shabbat in girls neighborhood]
[they hang out Friday night]
[guy ends up at girls apartment
[things get hot and heavy]
[they end up in bed]
[guy grabs condom in package and is about to open it....]
Guy: Oh no, I can’t open the condom because it has words printed all over the plastic and it’s shabbat! [note: can't rip across words on shabbat because it is melacha of erasing]
LOL :-)
LOL, brilliant.
Mark, I’m enthralled. :)
Now, if only there was a dating site for those of us who are also “constantly struggling with the fact that [our] religiosity is neither here nor there”( of Religious and Secular), but are neither Dati lite Dati leshe’Avar.
( Or, is it just that there really isn’t anyone who’s in my league ?)
That should have been:
… but are neither Dati Lite nor Dati leshe’Avar.
Yup. Looks like you’re screwed. :)
Deena, is there any possibility of posting subtitled versions, or transcripts of the videos for the olim chadashim among us?
Hey Yehuda. I’m sorry I can’t provide English translations. These aren’t my videos and I don’t really have the time (or the concentration necessary!) to start translating the whole thing. I recommend you click through to the videos on YouTube and ask the owners for translations/transcripts. May as well try, I suppose.
Welcome to Israel. :)
Thanks, Deena. Good suggestion, I’ll do that. Right now I’m actually back in New York temporarily (finishing my PhD, a family wedding, etc.), but I’d like to get in touch with you when I get back to Jerusalem, around December–I enjoy your blog, and I think we’d get along.
Shalom uv’racha :)