Comments on: Give a little help to your friends

By: Shhh… I attended a singles event « HaBitza – Date like a Mensch

Shhh… I attended a singles event « HaBitza – Date like a Mensch — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 21:42:18 +0000

[...] been thinking more and more how important it is that people try to help each other. I wrote about the importance of friends setting up friends and honestly, anyone who wants to help, kol hakavod to [...]

By: Deena

Deena — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 11:22:04 +0000

That is SO possible. It is a lot more difficult for singles to set their friends up because we’re IN the swamp so we’re not as clear sighted. But I do think that if you go out with someone, it doesn’t work out with them, but you liked and respected them from what you got to know about them, you should try to set them up with a friend.

I recently went out with someone I thought was really nice. Then when he didn’t want to go out with me again, after one (freakin’) date, I thought, “I should set him up with a friend” but I couldn’t do it because I was hurt by the fact that he didn’t like me after one date. It’s chaval because he seemed very nice on the date but I just figured he must be an idiot if he didn’t like me after one date. :) And I won’t set my friends up with idiots!

By: Adam Ehad

Adam Ehad — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 10:32:09 +0000

Setting other people up is a very strange thing. In my experience, whenever I have been tempted to set someone up, it is usually because I rather like them myself, but knew we wouldn’t work well together. In fact, I think a lot of the matchmaking-by-singles that goes on is by people who half-fancy one of the people they are trying to set up. Just the impression that I get…

By: Shoshvinim – the site where you set up your friends « HaBitza – Date like a Mensch

Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:31:45 +0000

[...] online, dating websites, friends, israel, jerusalem, marriage, matchmaking by Deena I just wrote a post yesterday about how I believe it’s important people try to help their friends meet the right [...]