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Q.  I went on a date and it’s now three weeks later and he hasn’t called me and I’ve called him every day and he doesn’t pick up and I went to his house and he won’t open the door and I call his work and he puts me on voice mail – does that mean he’s not interested?  or is he just very shy? from QP, Jerusalem

Yenta says: Well, I don’t know… maybe… it’s time you should get a life? or a therapist? Oh, you are a therapist?  That explains a lot.

The Chick says: Wow, first I just need to say that you sound like a super healthy and balanced person. I’m very impressed. The way you persist and stalk… Maybe the problem is that you haven’t used all the modes of communication available to you. I assume you’ve tried text messaging. And what about email, snail mail, Morse Code, telegram?

I’m sorry to say this but without a little more effort, he’s just going to think that you aren’t trying hard enough. At this point he probably assumes you aren’t really interested in him.

So, put yourself out there! Stalk away! And I’m sure he’ll finally answer your bazillionth email/SMS/phone call.

Good luck! Can’t wait to hear you’ve made it to the chuppa!